The ego uses a variety of predictable patterns as the basis of its thought system is judgment whose origin stems from sin, fear and guilt. Judgment is always one or the other. As you perceive a brother through judgment, you’ll project and judge on that brother until you perceive the outcomes back. Once those email address details are perceived, you will use perception repeatedly to project and judge them a lot more.
Unfortunately, this uses both sides of the ego wrong mind and compounds the initial error until the truth is well hidden. Handing over judgments for correction (forgiveness) stops the cycle.
Holy Relationships:
The ego uses special love and hate relationships, and also specialness (being different), to keep the illusion of separation going. Usage of these kind of relationships as cause, is also the ego mind as cause; and the effect would be to continue separation between brothers because they are in line with the original separation. Remember cause and effect: The mind you select from, as cause, will result in the corresponding consequences (effect).
This is not about you needing to be alone or avoid relationships in life. It really is, however, all about the way you enter and utilize them within the mind.
The choice which will set you free would be to elect to have your relationships be Holy Relationships. un curso de milagros en espanol You must function as person practicing forgiveness in all of your relationships, even though you are the only 1. It is “special” until you transform it “Holy.” To see another as a brother, a prerequisite to going home, holds true Perception which shines a light of truth on you both. The ego cannot prevail against Oneness since it is not real.
Form and Content:
A TRAINING COURSE in Miracles (ACIM) is quite clear that form will not matter. There is nothing in ACIM about behavior and when you judge a brother on his / her behavior, this is the same side of the ego mind. They may be acting from the ego “wrong” mind; nevertheless, you are judging from the ego “right” mind. To the ego, one judgment is equivalent to any other.
What the Course says is that content matters. Content is the mind. ACIM concerns itself with you knowing that you can choose the Holy Spirit Right Mind as your internal Teacher thereby producing a different cause and effect.
What you or another does in form (behavior) will not matter. However listed below are two questions to consider:
When I acted, did I act from the Holy Spirit Right Mind? (Content)
Is my interpretation of my buddy from the Holy Spirit Right Mind? (Content)
You won’t have peace unless you can answer “yes” to both. Choose again if you want to. It really is never too late.
There is ONLY 1 of Us:
When you judge a brother, you’re using the ego mind as cause for that judgment to become a real effect. This is the reason we emphasize that everything you see in another has to be forgiven in yourself first. Here’s why: (1) You cannot see fault (judgment) in another unless you chose from that part of the split mind to begin with; (2) You cannot judge everything you don’t already believe to be true since it is based on the actually chose from; and (3) Judgment about another is a statement of the guilt retained in your mind from the initial separation because you are choosing to utilize the ego mind. It really is where you are still holding onto fear and guilt instead of choosing correction (forgiveness) for the reality.
Absolutely anyone who turns up and provides you with a chance to heal your mind is a gift you need to use. Turn it into a Holy Relationship. This is one way you will return your own mind to God, and how others eventually see it for themselves. Contain the light of forgiveness which gives all minds an opportunity to make a different choice. Judge plus they run and hide further into darkness and error.
A Call for Love:
Attack is a conscious mind behavior predicated on projection, judgment and perception. The ego’s point is to protect separate identity and for that reason, all attack is often a demand love, or forgiveness, that is joining. The more determined you’re to know the truth about yourself and a brother, the more you’ll choose contrary to the ego’s attacks and only correction (forgiveness) from the Right Mind.
Responding with love often means a lot of things and sometimes, it could even mean no response. Other times, you may want a boundary or even to take some action. To respond with love, you absolutely must be practicing forgiveness and utilizing the Right Mind to show total attack and judgment. The Holy Spirit will provide you with a solution if you completely turn compared to that Right Mind for help. “Completely” may be the key word.
Eventually you see no attack (error) occurred and that is to know the truth about you as well as your brother. There is no defense necessary (“defenselessness” on the Split Mind diagram). When you share your willingness never to see error, you have shared what you need to help keep and learn for yourself. What you share you find you have.
Sharing:
Sharing methods to allow yourself to share with another what you want them to have. Your only reason behind doing this is because it is what you want to have for yourself. You’re teaching them what you would like to be yours. Teaching is instruction of ideas and principles. Do that and you may find you have it because you’ve literally said, “Give back to me what I’ve taught you.”